Surya V
@welcome28 · 5:00
Kids vs conditioning #askswell
Then the kid will feel secure in its relationship with you as a parent. Now the kid very well knows that it can safely discuss any of its problems with you. Be it of a teenager or later. The kid will never seek any peer support outside for a solution to its problems. Today, most of the youngsters are at crossroad and seek outside or peer support because of their parents boorish approach towards them
Surya V
@welcome28 · 5:00
Please remember, I have seen enough cases of this type. They even discard the parents out of the frustration they have built in the childhood. So please allow the child to experience and mature. Let them live unconditionally in tune with the existence they will mature better. Be responsible so that your kid or your angster or your teenager or your child whatever it may be, they become responsible not only to you as parents but they also will become responsible to society. Teach them how to serve others
Surya V
@welcome28 · 5:00
It can refer its problems to you for a solution and it comes with a sense of responsibility for you as a parent. You two should get updated your vision and your version to better levels in tune with what is going on in the society so that you can suitably guide or advise your kid. Don't advise your kid with your outdated knowledge. You must be updated first. If your version is outdated, even if you advise, it doesn't work for the kid
Surya V
@welcome28 · 3:29
So. And one more thing, I have to add it here. Always speak very positively to your child. Always bless your child. Parents blessings are very important. In many families, the mother or father will curse the child. What sort of a kid you are. You what sort of a person you are. Yes. Some parents say these words to their kid. I wish you are not born to me. I wish you were not my child. Such a statements are very dangerous
At the same time, they are restricted to certain things. And when certain things happen out of that, they'll not be in a mode to take it and consider it. So it's very, very important to give them that the freedom to explore. We should not condition them always, because what happens is by conditioning, you'll never ever allow them to understand their own talents and understand what are their priorities. And it's always like my parents said I did
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
And I think that if I would have been brought up in a more free family, I wouldn't have had to go through all the challenges that I had gone through. So that's the reason my child is still alive, I think. So it's time that we learn life from them and not teach them about life. So thank you so much and good night. Bye