They don't have easily bruised egos and are able to truly listen in an argument and then respond with their own thoughts and opinions. They are masters of maintaining an even tone and temper and will use strategies such as taking a break and then coming back to the conversation, analyzing points and then communicating them to ensure that things stay balanced and healthy. Mediating is the most common fight language of couples who did not begin with the same fight language but have over time, learned to communicate with one another better
Laura Monk
@ThriveLauraMonk · 2:57
Remember that healthy relationships are not conflict free. Healthy relationships are two people who can work through their conflicts. I hope that this was helpful for you today, which is your arguing style and are you able to move up and forward with free communication arguing styles? I hope so. And if you're struggling with that, I highly suggest that you get in to see a therapist to help you work on your communication styles
But when I'm in a natural state, it's definitely the moderator, which I have like you beautifully specified, can come from conscious effort in establishing and working through a relationship and working on communication skills. Well, my partner, she is really good at the last one, I forgot you mentioned the free flow where when we first met, she was really good at just kind of saying, I'm feeling this right now
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Laura Monk
@ThriveLauraMonk · 1:38
You. Hi Dobsty, thank you so much for listening and replying to my podcast. And yes, you make a lot of very good points. And it's very true that people will have a different arguing style depending upon the situation and if they are in a regulated state versus if they are in a dysregulated state house, dust out they are, et cetera. And that does fluctuate. So you are correct
Masha Rooh
@Ba-Dastoor · 4:56
Hey Laura, you're bang on, right? That we as individual in the process of becoming partners, we tend to forget with a realization of the importance of understanding each other though at the beginning or at the start, when everything is gloomy and good and it goes as per the plan, everything is good and we believe that we are need for each other and we're similar
