@Pragati.chopra
Pragati Chopra
@Pragati.chopra · 9:16

Lets Talk about " Lack of Attention in Relationships ".

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Now, relationships don't lack attention out of the blue, there are deep issues hidden in it and if you want to make things work you need to understand where the issues arising from. At the beginning of the relationship we all want to make it work but when people become comfortable with each other they start taking things for granted. They do not understand the need to show affection or attention but this is where everything starts. It starts going wrong because the other person starts feeling ignored

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@The.mystic01
The mystic
@The.mystic01 · 3:27
It can be difficult to know how to handle the situation, but we have to find out some ways how to tackle with such type of problems or with such type of situations in our lives. I think, first of all, it's important to recognize the sign of a lack of attention in a relationship, as you have described in your Swellcast. Also, the signs can include not taking an interest in the other person's life and avoiding important conversations or not participating in activities together
@verra02
Ravi Verma
@verra02 · 4:59

Set n meet expection without ego!

So my suggestion is that when you're in a relationship you should figure out ways and means to get intimate emotionally. Find that happy place, find that safe zone, find those safe situations where you can open up and talk to your partner and express your feelings and tell them how it impacts you and tell them how you want them to be with you and set those expectation. And once you have set those expectation, the second part to it is that give them the opportunity to deliver on those expectations
@Swell
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15

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@challasrigouri
Challa Sri Gouri
@challasrigouri · 1:32
Hi Pragati, thank you so much for giving such a detailed explanation about lack of attention in relationships and you are absolutely right and I really love the quote that you have posted that is how long you might be with them. But there is no excuse for lack of attention. So not only in the relation of couples, every relation we basically seek attention and care
@kavitaseth22
Kavita B
@kavitaseth22 · 1:00
You? Yes. My view on healthy relationship is that putting all the efforts from your side up to some extent is important. But if somebody is forcing you and just it is without your will or without your consent then it will be a forceful relationship maintained by you. And in the relationship there should be freedom of everything. Like freedom of thought, freedom, freedom of expression and freedom of just doing things in a right way and just giving suggestions and listening to them. Then the relationship continues
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