Jonny Walker
@WaveyBones · 1:24
WHY monogamous
But on the topic of polyamorous people, a majority of the people that I know are monogamous, and there's a few people that I know that are polyamorous. And it always baffles me how much monogamous people try to tame the polyamorous soul. And I just want to know how anybody else out there feels about it. Monogamous polyamorous. I want to hear both sides
Deborah Pardes
@DBPardes · 4:12
People have to be who they are and in their truth. And that's the best way to be with somebody and accompany someone through life. So I think that's kind of a good universal law about anything, whether or not who you love, how you love, what you eat, all that stuff. So I come from that place. We all have personal choices, of course, which is an awesome thing when we exercise those choices
Jonny Walker
@WaveyBones · 3:27
But whenever they talk about their other partner, there's a lot of journaling about not feeling important in the relationship, and I'm pegging that on it being a long distance one, because there's not a lot of people who are in that relationship status quo in my area where I live. I'm going to listen to the rest of your message now
Jonny Walker
@WaveyBones · 3:16
See. And here's the thing. I totally agree with you. Just simply not dating the polyamorous person, just like a polyamorous person wouldn't date a monogamous person. I think one of the questions indicated maybe between the lines, maybe I'm having a different interpretation since I'm having thoughts and feelings. But there's an indication of him wondering why there's those people out there that want to tame the polyamorous person