When being the butt of the joke turns out to benefit your own growth
But two, it over time has shown and revealed the true characters of the people who were trying to go out of their way to make me the butt of a joke or embarrass me, for me simply just being me, and it's kind of that reflection of like, now you've made yourself look bad. I don't know that
Because then it makes them take a look at themselves and what they're saying and maybe realize that they're being rude and they won't want to repeat it. But also, I'm in this in between space right now where I am learning to just ignore it and let it go and not feel like it's my responsibility to teach them that they're being rude