Competition With Your Spouse is Healthy
Without it, I don't get to be a college professor. I don't get to do any of this stuff. So having your wife go to your wife or husband or spouse or goat or whatever you're into, whatever floats your boat, whatever you call your significant other, having them actively involved in the things that you care about, the things that make you happy, it's important because you're giving them an opportunity to share in your happiness and in your hard times