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Ernieshia Gatling
@LadyyDivinee · 3:00

How to Befriend, It Is Tough Being a Loner

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Because I am like one of the most friendliest people you can ever meet. And to sit here and think about it, I don't know what happened, but if you guys can kind of give me some ideas on how I can maybe find some good friends, it would be very appreciated. Because there's no way that I just don't even have any. And to be honest, there's way too many of us out here in this world for any of us to really be lonely

#buildfriendships #becomingsocial

@kwa
Kwa NateKo
@kwa · 2:52
The other thing is, I know there's neighbors I have and I'm always like, there's at least one dude. I'm like, we always see each other. Yeah, we should hang out sometime. We never do it. And so I found myself the other day going to his place. He wasn't home just to try to get his number and actually see if we could actually do that. So I suppose for me, but I'm still working through this
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Ernieshia Gatling
@LadyyDivinee · 1:01

@kwa

Of course driving out like to Raleigh area or Charlotte area from where I live it can be a bit much but I guess you have to kind of put yourself out there and that's something I'm trying to do more of this year because it's about that time and I feel like the only way that I'm really going to really meet friends is if I just step outside of my comfort zone and try new things. So I think that's an incredible idea
@kwa
Kwa NateKo
@kwa · 3:02
The point is to build the relationship rather than the thing itself. And I like that idea because you get in the habit of talking to people. If I could find what that app is, I'll repost it. But there is also another
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Ernieshia Gatling
@LadyyDivinee · 0:33
I certainly love that idea. Very, very, very true. I forgot about the fact that you can go online and look up these different events, and believe it or not, there are some events that goes on, but you got to kind of hear it, you know? But I think I'm gonna definitely consider this because it's getting to a point where I'm just, like, tired of being a loner out here. I need to start somewhere. So, really good points
@motoblanco
javon johnson
@motoblanco · 4:57
They think you're trying to. Again, maybe they think you're on the prowl or trying to pick them up or whatever, but it's just, I don't know, just how society works nowadays. But, yeah, that's my take on it. And take care. Have a good evening. Bye
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