I know some people who they go for the forehead kiss, like as the first kiss, because I don't know if they're afraid of the lip kiss or they're just thinking like, lip kiss is too much intimacy. So the forehead kiss is easier. Have you ever kissed a friend on the forehead? Or like a friend that you wanted to be more than a friend? I want to know all your stories. I want to know all the juicy details
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 2:13
Because to me there's something significant in that one. It's just because you I mean, cause you don't go around, there's nobody else you're gonna go around and kiss on the nose. And I don't mean like nasty, like up in your nose, but I mean just like barely kiss the tip of your nose. That is so cute to me. There is something just so cute about that. And like I think it's just like a special super intimate right?
Carly D
@Astroality · 2:30
Or like that if you all go to dinner at the same place but you came in two different cars, and he walks you to your car and opens the door and gives you a kiss on the forehead before you get in your car. I think that's super cute too. I think there's just like a right time and a right place for it
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 3:12
Anyway, the forehead kiss can be really sweet, but on your first date, do you know them well enough to know to lean? Is that awkward? If that's your first kiss on your first date and they had walked you to the car and nerves are kind of up because you know, if it's going to happen, it's about to happen. And do you stay still for that one? Because you can tuck and roll on the forehead kiss, too? I'm just saying
Carly D
@Astroality · 1:34
That's like a nah, I could probably do, like, full body hug maybe, but just like a random stranger now, if this was someone that you'd, like, known your whole life and whatever in the past, it didn't work out and you're in a new spot now, maybe. I don't know. What do you do? And then if you do kiss someone, the first date is like, that's automatically, like, implying or securing a second date
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 2:37
Okay, so I've got to add a story because this s*** is, like, happening real time. Okay, so you brought up the kissing on the first date. How hot is he? Okay, so the guy that sold me my house when I got separated, I had to message him today because because we had a really bad storm and the exhaust vent in the bathroom started dripping water from the rain. And I was messaging him about my extended warranty. This guy is 31
Carly D
@Astroality · 1:15
I don't know, that's just me personally. I like people who are consistent and who keep their word. So just my personal opinion, but you also mentioned that it depends on how good looking the guy is, whether or not you're going to give him a kiss on the first day. But you did not mention whether this guy was really good looking, right? You said he's okay
Now, in retrospect, I'm sure he saw it in a movie or something, which nothing wrong with, but he turned out to be a complete narcissist and probably a psychopath, obviously. But before my person, who I have been with now for twelve years, she, you know, could kiss me anywhere. And it would either be intimate and sexual or sweet and loving or romantic or whatever. Except for certain places. I think you guys are talking like collarbone
Carly D
@Astroality · 0:39
And so a I'm not expecting it. Yeah, you definitely could end up with, like, a rib job. Not even on purpose, but just like, yeah. I don't know. That made me laugh. So I hope you're having a good day, and thank you so much for taking the time to respond. Bye
Jordan Tepper
@JordanTepper · 2:58
I mean, I kiss my kids on the forehead, but no, not a kiss on the forehead. I don't know. This is where do we go with this? I have a couple of minutes left. In all sincerity, you have your initial attraction and then you have that arrow slove where you start trying to develop that relationship. You have that longing for the person. We want that physical touch. Can you even stand being near the person? Does a person smell good?
Carly D
@Astroality · 1:08
I have been laughing about this so hard that I can't even reply. I will try super hard to hold it together. First of all, that meme, is life. It's so perfect, and I love it. Secondly, I know Renee and I went sort of wild with our responses yesterday, but it's the truth, I swear to you. Like, if someone cannot kiss, like, I am all the way out. Like, sorry
Jordan Tepper
@JordanTepper · 3:37
If I'm ordering something and you don't like it, that's fine. More for me. Don't eat it, but don't say, oh, that's gross. I can't believe you're eating that. You know what I'm going to do? I am going to eat more of it in front of you just to prove a point, because I won't yuck your yum. That's what you like. That's great. It will yuck your yum
Carly D
@Astroality · 2:19
But I hate it when chicks wear a tank top with a regular bra. So it's like a racer back tank top with, like, a regular bra. And you can see their bra straps. In fact, I don't like to see bra straps at all, either. Get yourself a shirt that covers your bra straps. Get yourself a tank top that covers your bra straps. Wear a strap of bra. Wear some pasties
A long kiss on the forehead where your lips actually stayed on the forehead for a while. That means I'm praying for your safety until I get back. Then a kiss on the forehead and a roll to either side means I got to go, but I don't want to go. So where you end up like either cheek to cheek or both looking in the same direction. That means I got to go, but I don't want to go. Now
Carly D
@Astroality · 1:10
You, Mike. Always dropping the wisdom. I love this for Mike, a million reasons, and let me tell you what they are. So number one, I love that you said that there's, like, intentionality to what you do, and not just like, the kisses, but like, the writing, the letters, using the wax seal. That is so awesome. Your friends and people that you're close to, they're really lucky to have you
Carly D
@Astroality · 1:23
It's. This is so awesome. Like, okay, I just have to say, I never, ever thought about that. But then when you said it, I was like, oh, my God, that is so true. And it's so I don't know. You're right. It's like a huge mark of trust. And it's just okay, first of all, just your perspective on that is amazing. And I love it. I never even thought about that
Carly D
@Astroality · 1:09
And just the level of compassion and kindness that you show towards others is incredible, and I appreciate that so much. So thank you for being a part of my tribe. I appreciate you
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 0:27
We're talking young and handsome. Young and handsome. Very handsome. Very handsome. But still, I don't know. I don't know. He seems like he's getting cold feet. Figured he would because I told him he's fine. Whatever. Wear whatever. Just bring me my bring me my bourbon. My late bourbon. I did check him on that. So I don't think he's going to come. I think it was all talk. But we shall see
Carly D
@Astroality · 0:36
You put it out there, girl. Even if he just comes over to deliver your bottle of bourbon, that is way overdue. Like, put it out there. It's Friday. It's payday. He's going to hook it up, and you're going to get what you want, and it's going to be a fantastic day
This is so obvious. You know, when the forehead kisses are like promises, it's like an affirmation, it's like an acceptance. It's a sign of you love, that you care about that person. There's no lust in that. And it's like a trust, it's beautiful. It's cannot express those in word. I think it's a feeling, it's an emotion and it's a bond when it comes to two person
Carly D
@Astroality · 0:38
That pure. Like I care. That pure safety. That pure thank you for choosing me and allowing me to choose you type of thing. This is awesome. Thank you so much for your input. You made my night
Kiss. Hello. And wow, the significance of a forehead kiss. All right, so I'm pretty sure you might be aware of this movie called The Best Man, and it was talking about the forehead kiss and how women how women feel when a man kissed on the forehead. And I always found a forehead kiss from the man that loves me as gentle as his lips are soft. And it gives me that kiss on my forehead. It makes me feel secure. It makes me feel safe
Carly D
@Astroality · 0:41
It's almost like it creates a sense of security and safety. And I think that's why I think that's why it's really important. It's significant. You're right. And I appreciate you giving your input. I hope you're having a beautiful day
Renee Slay
@Renee_Slay · 1:02
It's. So he messages me late and is trying to mike late, like late and like, should have done been there, like or I should have heard from him probably an hour 2 hours earlier. And so instead of just being like and like he wants to come over and and I told him no, I was busy because I didn't want to seem like I got nothing going on. And I was like, no, I've already made other plans
Carly D
@Astroality · 0:42
And I guess we'll do a rain check when we can both make our schedules work at a different time and or you could have just been like, I don't feel like having company, whatever, because that's just not right. No guy should keep a woman waiting. Whatever. And especially not when he owes you something like, what the heck? Not cool. Not cool. I'm proud of you, though. Can't wait to hear the update. Bye