Her sexual Persona, candidness about wanting sex was actually her way of circumventing her own shyness about physically initiating sex. It was how she got what she wanted. So when it came down to it, we just weren't a good fit for each other. Perhaps after the first date, I knew that physical spark wasn't there, but for some odd reason, I kept seeing her to see if anything would change. Although she was attractive, I never got turned on from kissing her