And I feel like again, you only get one chance of this. So don't settle for years of being in something that doesn't complete you just because you've been in it for years and just because you have become comfortable and I don't know, I just feel like love is love, but I don't know, I digress, but I'm just curious as to what your thoughts are on love, what your thoughts are on soulmates. Do you still believe in that?
Hi. Thank you so much for asking this question. I don't know if I'm at a place in my life where I'm entirely informed enough to answer. I don't think experienced love in the way that I think it's supposed to be experienced. Yet I've been in a lot of relationships where I've given more than I've received, and because of that, I don't know if I've experienced love in a pure and beautiful and fulfilling way
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
MAXAYN G.
@WomenOfValor74 · 3:10
But it's about both giving equally. It's like I'm older. So I have experienced love a couple of times in my life, but I know I experienced pure love years ago, and that person actually set the bar for what I expect. And the funny part is, even now, I look for that same love. But I know that I'll never get that because it was my first love, and it was the purest love
And it's not because you're still attached to them. It's because you created this bond. And I don't think bonds just go away easily. They take time. I think to really get rid of a bond, you have to thoroughly destroy it. And I think that's a difficult thing to do. So more often than not, you're just going to have a fondness for someone that you once loved
When I really disagree with that, I think love is different and looks different in every relationship, and it looks different to each person. But as far as balancing out the give and the take, I think that there are some moments like if I was really sick or something like that, like my husband would take care of me and would love potentially some of the things that he used to receive from me, right? It wouldn't be that even give and take that we usually have as a default
MAXAYN G.
@WomenOfValor74 · 2:32
And I think sometimes again, like you said, society has us saying, like, oh, it's too soon. We're overthinking things. But if you really listen, not even listen. Just feel your heart. If we take the time to just feel our hearts and feel our intuition, we all know what love is. And there is not any time frame. And when it's right is right
Fletcher Oliver III
@Mr2Extra · 5:00
In my era, women thought that they had all sex with a man, that he wouldn't go anywhere in this era. Women thinking that if they bring another women to the bedroom, it would make their man stay at home. No, it won't. It creates problems and issues all around