When should we stop giving people chances?
So at what point do we draw the line and say enough is enough? When should we stop giving people chances? Or are there certain people who we should always forgive? I think this answer definitely depends on who is hurting you and what exactly they've done. I don't think there's a surefire answer that applies to everybody, but I'd love to hear your perspective. Is there a certain red flag you see that indicates its time to walk away?
Trevor H
@TheologyCentral · 3:39
I hope that makes sense. It's hard to do this in five minutes. But I think it's something to try to draw this distinction between. Hey, I forgive you. But the chances of close relationship. I think we've kind of moved on past that's you move forward. Just a thought. You can tell me what you think about drawing a distinction between these two concepts
Reggie Mathis
@CoFfeeBlack · 2:48
But you got to go. That's how it is. I'm always cutting my family members off. And most of the time, I cut family members off. It's because of how they've treated me in the past, but I usually end up giving them another chance, and then they end up doing something stupid or say something stupid. That okay. You're out of here again. I mean, I give them chance after chance after chance at the chance
Swell Team
@Swell · 0:15
Roy Songer
@Roybotz · 1:29
You have to remember to forgive is not to forget. So if you don't forgive people, you might as well forget them. I've had to cut plenty of people out of my life. People that are emotional vampires. We all know who those types are. Those people are the worst. But generally, everybody gets one chance to be wrong or to be stupid. Of course, it also depends on how important this person is in your life
And I was also my father because at a certain point you just sort of realized that someone's not going to change, but they're also not somebody you can just sort of abandon because no one like that is ever going to show up. I'm never going to have another dad. I could have somebody who acts like a father figure, but they're never going to be my father